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How You Can Improve Online Dating Site Success

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  • 5 Steps to Online Dating Success
  • Recommended Online Dating Sites with the Highest Success Rate
  • Automate your Dating with the Correct Bot or Software
  • for People Who Are Plenty of Fish Members
  • Make your Dating Profile Stand out Visually
  • be Active on Online Dating Sites at Peak Times
  • Email People Who Are Live and Online Now

5 Steps to Online Dating Success

This page is going to reveal extremely powerful steps you can take to dramatically improve your online dating success and save you a lot of time as well.

These online dating success tips are not the same old generic, weak online dating success tips you have seen other places online. The dating success tips revealed here show you many different things you can do to ...

  • Significantly reduce the amount of time you need to spend to get messages, emails and dates from online dating sites.
  • Make your dating profile stand out in a positive and impactful way.
  • Show you how to access some paid dating site features, 100% free.

Recommended Online Dating Sites with the Highest Success Rate

This is the first step to improve your online dating success is to use the correct dating site. Use the dating site Plenty Of Fish. Why?

  • POF.com has the largest number of single members of any other online dating site. This is important because even if you run out of members in your area to message, just wait a week or two and there will be a whole new herd of new members you can email or message again, meaning, you will never run out of people to meet. Since dating is a numbers game, the more numbers, the faster and more likely your success.
  • POF.com is 100% FREE. This is one of the reasons it is the most popular dating site. Some people will argue that you get a better QUALITY of people (more serious about meeting someone if they are paying) on paid dating sites. This MAY be true BUT since the paid dating sites are going to have far fewer members, you might run out of member to communicate with and meet pretty fast. Personally, if I were serious about successfully finding someone, I would join one free dating site, Plenty Of Fish, and one paid one. For the paid one I would probably join Match.com because they now own Plenty Of Fish. Match was one of the largest and most popular PAID dating sites before this happened and since Match purchased POF in 2016 and heavily advertises Match.com on Plenty Of Fish, I am sure the number of single people there has increased dramatically in the last couple of years.
  • The number of fake profiles and scams on POF is very low, relative to other dating sites, especially considering the huge number of members they have.

You may read stuff online where people bash Plenty Of Fish but I personally have been a member of many different dating sites and I have found they are all the same, as far as quality, simply because people are people. Plenty Of Fish seems to have a lot of negative comments but it is a HUGE site with millions of members. With that many members there are bound to be a few cry babies that want to blame Plenty Of Fish because they can't get any.

All dating sites have people for members. So get the idea out of your head that there is some magical dating site. Go with the one with the highest number of single members - POF.com.

Automate your Dating with the Correct Bot or Software

You can and should save a lot of time automating tasks on dating sites that consume a lot of time. Consider these two facts:

  • The majority of time most men spend on dating sites, is sending introductory emails to women, in sufficient volume to produced the number of responses required to find a female member interested in them. This is not a problem for very attractive guys because these guys will get emails from women without doing anything.
  • The majority of time most UNATTRACTIVE women spend on dating sites is waiting. Since it is still sort of looked down upon for women to be the aggressors, they have to sit back and wait for men to contact them.
  • The majorit of time most ATTRACTIVE women spend on dating sites is filtering through all of the bad emails and messages they get from guys who either have no manners, no social skills, are married or in a relationship, are only looking for a hook-up or are way too old or too young.

Do you want to spend a lot of time LOOKING for people to connect with or do you want to spend your time actually TALKING with and GOING OUT with other singles.

For People Who are Plenty Of Fish Members

For guys who don't look like Tom Cruise and women who are not afraid to initiate the first 'hello', there is the software program POF Auto Message Sender. For people who want to take a more subtle approach there is the software program Plenty Of Fish Fast. The good news is that both these software programs are included as a package deal. I don't want to spend time going into great detail about what these programs do, so if you are interested in learning more, click the links above.

Pof Auto Message Sender Message Sent Confirmation Screen.
Image of Pof Auto Message Sender Message Sent Confirmation Screen.
Pof Auto Message Sender Message Sent Confirmation Screen.
Plenty Of Fish Auto Clicker Software Running.
Image of Plenty Of Fish Auto Clicker Software Running.
Plenty Of Fish Auto Clicker Software Running.

Of course, there are online dating bots out there for other sites as well. Just do a search.

Make your Dating Profile Stand Out Visually

When people perform a search on a dating site, search results are lined up next to each other, pretty much all looking the same. Make your dating profile stand out in these search results and it means more eyeballs on your profile which means more people looking at your profile and interacting with you.

There are two ways you can make your online dating profile stand out:

  1. Frequently make a significant change to your profile. When I say frequently, I mean at least once per week. This generally means removing or adding at least one picture or making a change to your profile text. Most dating sites have an algorithm that when a member makes a change to their profile, their profile shows up higher in search results. The reason for this is the assumption is that if you are a more active member, you are more likely to interact with others who might be interested in you. If you only visit the online dating site once per month and your profile stays the same, the dating site does not want to recommend you to other members because you won't respond to messages or E-mail resulting in an unsatisfying experience for the online dating site member.
  2. Add special ascii characters to your profile headline and profile description. Special ASCII characters look like an emoji or image but are actually special text characters that look like an image. Some dating sites automatically remove these special characters when you save your profile changes but some do not.
Dating Profile Stands Out Because Of Special ASCII Text.
Image of Dating Profile Stands Out Because Of Special ASCII Text.
Dating Profile Stands Out Because Of Special ASCII Text.

Be Active on Online Dating Sites at Peak Times

If you want to meet a single girl at a bar you would not go there at 10 am right? Same idea with online dating sites. Peak times are when the dating site has most of there members on the site checking mail, doing searches, etc.

  • 6pm - 11pm: this is when singles come home from work and had dinner. The hop on to their favorite dating site to try to find someone to share future dinners with.
  • 5am - 8am: singles are waking up to get ready to go to work. One of their morning activities is logging into their online dating and checking emails.

Email People who are Live and Online Now

Some sites, like Plenty Of Fish, indicate which members are currently on the site. For the Plenty Of Fish dating site they show an online now text next to their search results snippet.

The reason you want to contact people who are online now is mostly a psychological one. When someone is on a dating site it means their mind and heart is in the mood to meet someone, so much so they are doing something about it, right now. Be right there to let them know you are online now too and you are much more likely to get a response and something started.

Pof Stay Logged In Advanced Search Results.
Image of Pof Stay Logged In Advanced Search Results.
Pof Stay Logged In Advanced Search Results.

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